"The opportunity to forgive another comes to you when it is your time to grow and learn. This may be a difficult concept to grasp since when you are in a position to forgive another, you may have had an experience where you feel that you have been wronged, misunderstood, or simply victimized. While this may be true, remember to look past the action and look at the bigger picture of what is being painted for you. This picture has so much information for you regarding where you can learn and grow.First, realize that you are all human and know that you are all trying to "figure yourselves out". This can mean that you may hit those "ouch" buttons in one another as you are trying to figure yourself out. Next, trust that before you came to this Earthly experience, you have agreed with another to assist each other in the growth that you came to experience. However, 'assisting' can appear in many different ways. Know that those that may be your biggest challenge today may be your closest friend outside of this human experience.
Now, while that has been said, we do recommend that you understand that forgiveness is not an action that requires you to forget and put aside your needs and feelings. Forgiveness is about understanding. Learning to understand the purpose in the experience and allowing it to serve you in your growth. Understanding means allowing the knowledge to sink in and allowing yourself to apply it without judgment. This means simply allowing it to serve and assist you, providing you better clarity so that you can navigate your path even more clearly. Those that have served you in an experience where forgiveness is necessary, can be forgiven without compromising your integrity and boundaries. For instance, if someone hurts you (physically or emotionally) and the pattern continues to be the same; you can still forgive and understand, while still respecting and honoring your own needs and path by removing yourself or that person from that situation. This can be done from place of love and care. However, we do see many choose to do it from a place of hurt, anger, and mistrust. These low vibrating energies not only keep the wound open, but also create a toxic feeling inside you. Forgiveness is not only a healing energy for a situation, but also provides you the healing you need to be able to realize and experience the growth that awaits.
Spend some time today to feel where you may still have areas that can benefit from forgiveness...whether this be towards others, situations, or even yourself. As you do, ask for us, the Divine, your Higher Self, and/or an Ascended Master to assist you through this process. We can gently help you along this path. It is a great healing tool and will help you feel much better. We promise.
With all our love and care,
Your Angels"
